Sexual Problems For Men and Women

Some of the biggest problems for daters are the various sexual issues they face when the relationship works out. It's all lovely when you're dancing, dining and chatting over dessert, but what if you have a sexual problem when the lights go down, and you get more intimate? There are several ways this can be challenging.

The biggest issues which men face include rapid ejaculation, erection problems, and anorgasmia. Most men will have experienced rapid ejaculation at some point in their sexual life, because it is by far the most common male sexual problem: over three quarters of men ejaculate within three minutes of entering their partner during lovemaking. If you're a man, the best way to deal with this is to ensure that your partner has enjoyed her orgasm through cunnilingus or manual play before you enter her. That way, she'll be satisfied and you'll enjoy the excitement of a new sexual partner without worrying that you look foolish because you come too quickly. And it's always tactful to remind her that one of the reasons you're ejaculating so quickly is because you're so thrilled to be enjoying her body in this special way!

The next most common male problem is erectile difficulties, which affects about one man in ten at any one time. This is really a fairly simple problem to solve in many cases, particularly when the problem stems from first night nerves. If you're a man and it happens to you, don't panic, just tell her that this just shows your anxiety about ensuring she's happy in bed, and then give her pleasure through cunnilingus or manual play, and next time you'll be more confident and able to have sex without losing your erection. A great way to boost your sexual confidence is to get some Viagra, which you can obtain from various internet pharmacies, and take it before you have sex. This will help you to overcome any confidence related issues about losing your erection.

The third most common male sexual problem is called male orgasmic disorder. This is a slightly more unusual problem where a man cannot ejaculate during sex despite prolonged thrusting during intercourse. It's often a real issue for couples, which causes conflict and unhappiness in a sexual relationship. If you're a man who has had this problem in lovemaking, there is a simple self-help program on the website listed below all about delayed ejaculation.

For women, the most common problem is difficulty in reaching orgasm during sex, a condition called anorgasmia. Often it's the result of a woman's nerves about sex, or the fact that she has issues with her body. If you're a woman with problems reaching orgasm during sex, you might like to look at the website below which has a self-help you can use at home to deal with difficulty in reaching orgasm, and which should make sex into a happy event which gives you both great satisfaction.

Finally, for couples, there's the perennial challenge of which sexual position to use in lovemaking. We all enjoy the basic missionary and woman on top positions, along with coming in from bhind and perhaps the side by side sex position as well, but it's certainly true that variety is the spice of life when it comes to lovemaking. If you'd like to explore more, there's a tasteful website with lots of photos, called Sex Techniques and Positions. Just enter "Sex Techniques and Positions" into Google and you'll find it.

Rod Phillips is writer of Male Orgasmic Disorder . You can find more information on sex positions at Sex Techniques and Sex Positions. If you want to beat premature ejaculation, see How To Last Longer In Bed.

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