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If you're looking for some advice on how to make your love life go with a bang, follow our simple tips for success in bed. First Sex Position Mistake Pushing your partner to do something she isn't comfortable with. So, if you've been thinking of trying the outrageous sex positions adopted by some porn stars, forget it! Start from a more realistic place. Being comfortable for a woman involves two things: first of all, she has to be comfortable. That might mean she isn't going to feel too pleased if you ask her to put her ankles behind her ears while you make love. It might also mean that you need to avoid any sexual position that gives you the deepest penetration, since your penis might bang her cervix and give her some pain. Second, she has to emotionally comfortable. So if you treat her like one of those X rated film stars, she isn't going to be too pleased either, and you're not likely to be invited back to bed. The things to avoid include: ejaculating over her without her whole-hearted agreement, using rude talk that is disrespectful to her, wanting to slap her butt if she isn't into it, and generally treating her like a sex object rather than a person. Second Sex Position Mistake There's an old saying: "A gentleman takes his weight on his arms during sex." If you think this is the best way to behave during sex in the man on top position, did you ever try asking your partner what she wants? A lot of women want to feel the weight of their man on top of them during sex - they say: it makes them feel safe, desired, or that they just like to feel the power of their man in this sex position. Of course, if you're a lot heavier than she is, you may find you squash her, so exercise some judgement, but generally, in the man on top sex position, let her feel your weight! Third Sex Position Mistake Remember great sex is the product of two people's energy, so don't just lie there if she's on top. Remember that you can still move in this sexual position, even if your opportunity to thrust is rather restricted. You can thrust your pelvis to match her movements, lift your knees to alter the angle at which your erection enters her vagina, and caress her breasts and clitoris if she's facing you while you make love. If you've ever had a woman lie under you like a log - without moving - when you were making love during man on top sex, so in this position, return the favour and move about yourself! Fourth Sex Position Mistake Being too aggressive during sex. Sure, some women like a little more male power, either all the time or once in a while, but for a woman, sex tends to be something special and that's how she wants you to see it too! All of which means not thrusting away selfishly without thinking about her pleasure, not having an orgasm yourself before she's had one, and not respecting her needs during your sex. If you want to show how much of a man you are by being a bit dominant, do it with firmness and kindness, rather than flinging her around the bed. Needless to say, this advice applies whatever sex position you are using! Fifth Sex Position Mistake Getting in a sexual rut every time you make love. Sure, you don't have to try all the exciting and challenging positions you can find on the internet, but a bit of variety really can add excitement and passion to your sex life. Even if you're extremely fond of the man on top position, for example, sex in the rear entry or side by side positions will let you see things very differently, may well get you much more aroused, and will certainly give you both some different sensations! See http://www.sex-techniques-and-positions.com for more information on great sex positions!
Fred writes for many online sex information sites, including Sex Positions. You can find more articles at Sex and Relationships.
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